Sweet and Sour

We are still in a holding pattern regarding humanitarian work in India. It isn’t exactly fun but we are finding ways to keep busy. We continue to meet new people and have unique experiences.

Monday while looking out from the balcony to the Kailasagiri Hill I noticed how bright and cheerful it looked. We got at least an inch of rain over the weekend and everything was rinsed and brighter. The air is clear and it just felt lighter (not heavy), more hopeful. Things are looking up.

Our balcony view looking out to the Bay of Bengal in the Indian Ocean

Except that we got locked in our apartment! We could not get the lock to work. I was a little panicked. It is a long way to climb down from our 17th floor balcony. We used a spoon handle to unscrew the lock (we have no tools) from the door but that didn’t quite work because a plate went perpendicular into the door frame. I yanked on the handle but all that did was pull the handle off of the door. We shimmied and bent the lock and got it open but then we couldn’t get it back together again. A spoon handle was not adequate. We contacted the maintenance guy but he wasn’t able to come until the evening so we had to stay home all the rest of the day.

Our bent, non-functioning lock

We had some meetings this week pertaining to the work here but we won’t know anything until April. We are looking at some places that might be fun to visit while we await direction. We were invited to serve at church by Rick speaking in Sacrament Meeting and me teaching Relief Society. An especially interesting experience since we had people translating for us.

There is always something beautiful to see
Doorstep chalk design
Even the trucks are decorated

Happy Ugadi! Wednesday was the New Year here in the state of Andhra Pradesh (and other Telugu speaking states). Our badminton friends invited us to the 7AM celebration at the Health Arena by the Buddha. They said there would be food and that it was a special time. We were happy to go and I had thought about bringing some food item to share. After reading a little I decided that they had some traditional food and that I should just enjoy that. When we arrived and got to the top of the ramp at the entrance there were a lot of chairs set up and the man with the microphone said something like, “Welcome foreign visitors! Please come and join us.” It was rather hilarious. We continued up and since they weren’t quite ready to begin we walked for a bit and then returned. At that point only one of the badminton people was there. It was so not what we were expecting. Once again language is a barrier. We speak the same words but they mean something different.

The program was about an hour long and mainly consisted of an astrology guru sharing the predictions for the year and pronouncing the traditional blessings. It was all in Telugu so we only understood a few words here and there. The man that “coaches” badminton came late and was decked out in his new clothes. New clothes are part of the tradition.

Astrology Guru sharing his wisdom
A new acquaintance, Rick, Mr. Naidu (coach), a badminton friend (we were his “honored guests” at the celebration

Following the program they served the pachadi which is a chutney with six tastes—sweet, sour, salty, bitter, pungent, and spicy. These ingredients reflect the six aspects or emotions of life. They are a symbolic reminder that one must expect all flavors of experiences in the coming new year and make the most of them. It tasted pretty good but it all comes back to eating food prepared with unknown care…

I often forget how much we stand out. I honestly don’t feel that different but people continue to approach us just to say hello or say they see us walking and want to talk. Random people often want a chance to practice their English as well as get a photo.

The filing system at the Foreign Registration Office. Is it a surprise that the official didn’t show up for our appointment? No!

We went to Tenneti park beach again this week and one of the men we met at the Ugadi celebration noticed us and was surprised that we knew about this beautiful place for walking. We would have just passed him by because he didn’t stand out. We do try to greet people as we walk and sometimes a conversation ensues.

The government has allocated funds to spruce up Vizag because of the G20 summit being hosted in India. There are conferences all year long throughout the country. Some of the projects we have noticed include painting the median concrete work, planting flowering plants in those medians and the traffic circles. There are a significant number of murals in Vizag and they are creating new ones as well as sprucing up those that already exist. We were surprised to find some paintings on boulders at the beach that were not there a couple of weeks ago.

Stray dogs relaxing on the beach
A surprising new fish on the beach
We noticed these on the return walk

 

An interesting sight because it related to this week’s Come Follow Me Lesson–Matthew 13:47-52

Although we did not know what a mission to India would look like it is not going at all like we imagined. Life rarely does. I am thankful to feel at peace despite not knowing when we will be given the go ahead on projects or what that will look like. We have to take the sour along with the sweet and incorporate the spicy and the salty. It is all important to keep life balanced and to develop ourselves along the way.

Comments

9 responses to “Sweet and Sour”

  1. LuJean Schneider Avatar
    LuJean Schneider

    I like the six tastes of life. It is so true! While it might not seem like you’re accomplishing much, remember it is by small and simple things that the work is moved along!

    1. Taunya Neff Avatar
      Taunya Neff

      We continue to be amazed, although we shouldn’t be, as we go forward to feel guided from above. We talked more with our badminton friends today and they know of places that need help. We’ll see what comes of it.

  2. Susan Neff Avatar
    Susan Neff

    Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a net…

    I also loved the concept of the 6 aspects of life – sweet, sour, salty, bitter, pungent, spicy.

    We had a good visit with Ian and Annalise last Sunday – we are keeping them and Annalise’s mom in our prayers.

    1. Taunya Neff Avatar
      Taunya Neff

      It was interesting to watch the sorting of the fish. Sad to see that at least a third of the take was trash. There were some squid and decent sized fish and lots and lots of little fish.

      Thanks for watching out for Ian and Annalise.

  3. Allison Dunlap Avatar
    Allison Dunlap

    Your view out your balcony is lovely! What a relief you were able to extricate yourself from your apartment too! Everytime you mention a new place where you’re at, I seem to have a contact for you. We met a lady in the baptistry at the Oquirrh Mountain temple. She hosted and interviewed an Indian Christian pastor when he came to Utah for a World Religion Conference. His name is Titus Nirmal Kumar. I sent him a message via Messenger and he responded with many photos, showing me his ministry among lepers. His church is called Abiding Hope in Andra Pradesh and he is the Ex-Peace Ambassador for India at the parliament of World Religions. The only way I was able to contact him was through his Facebook page. He has been very cordial in his writings. Just passing these contacts on, for what reason, I know not, but they all seem to be in your neck of the woods!

    1. Taunya Neff Avatar
      Taunya Neff

      We’ll keep all the contact information and see where it leads. Thanks.

  4. Amy Jones Avatar
    Amy Jones

    Hello friends,
    You are having amazing adventures already. Your blog is WONDERFUL, we’ve enjoyed getting caught up on your life there in India. What a beautiful area! You’re missing out on all the snow here in Salt Lake…And love the six tastes. Bummer about being stymied in the humanitarian work. That’s got to be so frustrating-but I feel like one of the things we are learning here is that this is the Lords work, and things always work out, somehow… and never in the way we planned or imagined🤪 Have a wonderful week!❤️
    Amy and Brian Jones

    1. Taunya Neff Avatar
      Taunya Neff

      We are disappointed but not discouraged. We know it is the Lord’s work and we will rely on His timing. Good to hear from you and know you survived Roots Tech! Tell everyone hello.

  5. Deena Christensen Avatar
    Deena Christensen

    Love every one of your comments and philosophies that help you in your mission…looking for the sweet…enjoying the friendly people and the new experiences. We pray for you

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